Blaire Stanislao: 0:01

Hello, this is Blair Stanislao with the Happy Lion Center. Welcome to our podcast, mystical and Infamous, where we have playful and easy conversations about anything mystical, getting to the heart of all things, strange and weird. Join us in a bit of magical tomfoolery, spreading the alchemy of love and light. And now we invite you to enjoy the show in length. And now we invite you to enjoy the show Experiencing somebody of a lower vibration coming in and working with you. And if you're of a higher vibration, you said that it feels very draining, it feels icky.

Shantana Telise: 0:46

So when you and I always tell my clients I don't care who it is Like if you feel like you have outgrown me, don't come back to me. If you feel like you are not receiving a good healing, don't come back to me. Like, if you feel like you have leveled up so much where you're, you've now surpassed me and you're no longer getting it, don't come back and I'm not going to take offense to it, because if you work on, if you let somebody work on you that is at a lower vibration than you, they're just giving to you and it's draining you. You're, you're just taking on their stuff and you don't need that. And then you're going to be like, well, why? Cause?

Shantana Telise: 1:24

I remember working with a girl. It was back when I started doing Reiki. I started, I was getting, we were trading sessions and this is the only time I've ever done trainings. And I remember going to my mentor after and I'm like, why do I feel so crappy after she works on me? And she told me because she's at a lower vibration than you, so she's giving all the crap to you, so you're clearing her in that process instead of the other way around. That it should be. So the second, she's touching you and because I'm so extremely sensitive, I was absorbing it all and then, knowing that, like I learned, you can put, you need to know that you can say no, even if you're in a class setting. You have the right to say no. You don't have to physically say you can't. You know you can't work on me If you don't want to, like cause any issues and you're just like, you know what it is, what it is vibrationally, you put a no and you will not receive it. And that is the best way that you can protect yourself. And I always say that, even if I'm holding an event, you can say no to receiving this, you can say yes to receiving this because it's not good but they can interfere with your energy so much Like I was going to somebody and I couldn't figure out why nothing was and I eventually just a spirit came to me and they were like, look, stop going, we will bring you somebody new, but you need to stop going.

Shantana Telise: 2:43

Because I was going very religiously and it didn't seem to matter. Nothing was going and I kept asking, like, why is nothing happening for me? The second I stopped and I actually listened to spirit when they told me to stop going. All of a sudden, opportunity after opportunity started showing up, because even though I knew there was a lot going on in this person's life, I didn't take into the fact that they're at a lower vibration than me, and every time they worked on me, didn't matter what kind of energy work it was, I was absorbing their stuff and I'm not getting the help that I need. So then it's slowing me down from actually creating my life, and then they can actually just like hook in unknowingly and feed off your energy, and so it creates an energetic disaster that you then have to sit there and clean up from and it drains you and you just feel crappy. So you have to understand. You can say no.

Blaire Stanislao: 3:40

Yeah. So even in that, uh, the as I was telling him, the other recording, you know, it just felt icky, like it's like it was like this is an example of I just feel completely compelled to get up and leave, no matter what is going on where I am. So I did that. I just got up, I listened to the recording because this was it wasn't a recording I was live, right. I listened to the experience with this, this clearing session, and you know, I kind of participated. It's not like I heard it in the background, but I was doing other stuff. And then I didn't feel guilty about it, cause I just was like I don't care, I don't like that, right. And then, as as everybody starts asking questions, it's very similar to the other spiritual work where, like, basically, the answer is you need to do whatever you feel like you should do, it's fine, don't worry about it. Like you don't have to sit there and go through the whole experience, like you're talking about receiving it right. If you feel compelled to get up and move, then get up and move, there's nothing wrong with it. So then I was like, okay, well, that's what she said and I did it anyway, so I'm just going to keep doing it and it wasn't a problem after that.

Blaire Stanislao: 4:41

But what I noticed was I had another friend who was in that same group at the same time and she works pretty hard on like she's gone through this emotion code training and she's very, very good at that and she was testing all the time asking these questions and it was like she was saying I was 10, taking on everybody's, everybody's emotions in my necks, was killing me and she's so dramatic, and I was like what? And on everybody's emotions and my necks was killing me and she's so dramatic, and I was like what? And then she asks again another time and she gets all into the story and I'm like no, I just pretty much go in and say okay, it's going to be an experience. Whatever it is, I don't really care, meaning I don't have an expectation of it to be yin or yang and it wasn't unbearable for me, like the whole experience was fine, there was nothing wrong with it. So I guess that's an example of like you're saying you just decide, you just like I don't like that, I don't want it.

Shantana Telise: 5:34

Yeah, but at first it's like you had to come to the point where you can, in your energy, say no, yeah, and that's. I think people don't realize they have that. Like that's where boundaries really do come in, and it's because people don't. They're not aware. I don't want to go to somebody that doesn't work on themselves and just thinks that they're the all knowing and they are the best is because they now have this or that title. I don't care what title you have. If you're not working on yourself, you are of no use to me, because I don't want you touching my energy. I'm so picky on who touches my energy.

Blaire Stanislao: 6:07

Well, I find it really funny because I think this is probably similar to what people feel when they think about hypocrisy and religion. But the spiritual world, you do have people who are very I'm not picking anybody out in particular, so I'm just going to say it they're very egotistical and they're very proud of what which is. There's nothing really wrong with being proud, but, like, there's a degree to which where it's like are you boasting, Are you like trying to rub it in your face? I had one person I know personally, who I don't know why, I really like her. She's, she does an excellent job. But there are things about her that I just can't put my finger on them, Like I just don't want to be around her.

Blaire Stanislao: 6:51

And I saw her at an event one time. I hadn't seen her in a long time and she just asked oh, how you been, or whatever, and she told me all this drama stuff that happened, which was good Cause she obviously had shifted energy. But then in the next breath it was like I'm running a six figure business, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I was like, wow, that's nice. Now we know, that's what's important. You know like, you know, you know, do you? Is that something that's important to share, I guess, is my, my comment.

Shantana Telise: 7:17

It really depends, honestly, like I like. I look at my one of my teachers, I don't I had to actually just delete her off of Facebook, like I unfollowed her every on social media because it was like it was only. It became only about the money. And oh, I'm this amazing. I've been on these, these podcasts, these channels, all this stuff. So I'm this amazing. So you like and you have it's like, it's like so like her prices are outrageously insane and that's amazing If that's what people will pay, that and that's what you receive.

Shantana Telise: 7:55

But when the business becomes only about that, you've lost focus on what you're here to do, in my opinion, and so I'm. I'm one where it's like yes, I love, like, I love money, I absolutely love money and I love having all this. But it's like I also have to humble myself, and I think that's one thing I've actually been told by a client of mine is like she said like you are growing, you have come so far, but you stay humble. Yeah, because I'm here to do a job, I'm here to help people. I still have a calling and that's the. The money is this by-product of, and I find, like the people that I'm drawn to, like the most humble people that have money are the ones that are very humble and just are there to help, and those are the ones I attract now instead of. Oh well, it's only about the money and look how much I make a year because and I'm a millionaire now and I'm this now because I'm so amazing, so there's an egotisticalness to it that I just I don't agree with.

Blaire Stanislao: 9:00

Yeah, yeah, it's difficult, I think that I mean, I think that could be said of, honestly, any field, and I don't think people like that, generally speaking. But yeah, so I know we didn't touch on everything. There's so much to talk about with you, but let's, I just want to give you an opportunity to maybe talk about your academy, do you, are you ready to do that?

Shantana Telise: 9:17

Oh, yeah, okay, we're launching it. It starts August 31st Awesome, so early signups are welcome. But my academy I broke down channeling because I learned channeling in such a very structured way and that was where I ran into issues. For years. It was like, oh, but this is how my teacher showed me to do it and I can't show people that's how I'm doing it. Otherwise, I'm taking her work and that was a program I had and I was like you know what, when they, when goddess Isis, brought me this, she said to me here's how you're going to do it, here's the layout.

Shantana Telise: 9:54

And we expanded it in such a way where it was like even like when we talked about in that class, like the light language, like there's so many different ways of doing it. It's not just about the speaking right and then, but that goes for all kinds of even automatic writing. So I broke it down where it's like they're getting the support that I never got. And then we go into each month is like a different kind of channeling, where you're going to focus. Plus, channeling the Akashic records is different than being an Akashic records reader, because just there's no barrier. So so you just go in, you do. It's fun and same with mediumship. You learn how to do that and see if that's your cup of tea. So we dive into quite a bit, like we go into trance channeling, indirect channeling, light language, automatic writing, akashic records and mediumship. And then there's also, like the strong foundation of okay, here's how you raise your vibration, here's how you here's the steps to actually channel properly.

Blaire Stanislao: 10:53

With the protection which we were talking about before. Yeah, yeah, which is just kind of like all the practice, the protection that we were touching on before and the other experiences I've had with people showing me how to do the protection reminds me very much of uh, just because this is my life. I played volleyball in high school and college and it wasn't until I was in college that our team had lost several games, and there was one particular game. It was just this weird vibe, like it was. Maybe it was going worse than normal, right, but we go back into. I think the coach probably had like berated us, or that's what I felt like like you're berating us, you're talking trash to us, you're you know, like I don't know if she was trying to make us feel bad. Whatever the case may be, she was talking negatively, negatively to us, and we, as a, went back into the locker room to change clothes after the game and the words that I heard come out of my teammates' mouths, I was like really surprised because they were a couple of them were really just like trashing themselves and I felt bad because these are people I love, like I'm still connected with them 20 years later, right, like I definitely love them.

Blaire Stanislao: 12:04

So I'm listening to my friends to talk about themselves so negatively because of the situation that had just happened and I thought, why are you doing that? Like, do you really think that? Like, it was something about they didn't try hard enough or something like that, right, and I was like what you know, I couldn't register it. But then I realized, well, I don't feel that way. And because they were just I mean, the whole energy was just and um, I thought to myself, well, why don't I feel that way? Well, it's because when I go in, I did it at practice, I did it at games. It didn't matter what it was If I was playing volleyball, I was doing my best.

Blaire Stanislao: 12:41

Now, that doesn't mean that I didn't mess up and it doesn't mean that I didn't talk to myself negatively, but it meant that I understood that I'm just trying my best and if it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out. And oh well and um, and of course I had to evolve to that Right, but I was really surprised at that and that's kind of what it reminds me of, in the sense that the protection is. You just kind of come at it from a positive standpoint, like I'm going to do my best at this. I'm going to come at this from love instead of any other programming that really gets on that negative lineage, or whatever you want to call it, the downward trend you know, yeah, exactly.

Blaire Stanislao: 13:22

So that's. That's the only connection I've ever really been able to feel. That actually makes sense. Um, I actually had a dream. So we did this, this channeling. Um, we're doing channeling practice. He's there, he's helping us, he's kind of watching our connection or whatever, and his wife does amazing energy work and she was sending everybody a lot of really good energy and protection and so forth and then she withdrew. That I don't think he told us when she did that. And then what we noticed in our, on our chats together about other things, was that we were kind of there were a couple of us who were having these dreams which turned up to be infiltration dreams. Okay, and and we've, we've talked to him about it. He's clarified what it is, but I guess I guess my question is would you say that, like, infiltration dreams are allowing those negative energies to come in? Are it's basically a result of kind of, in a way, being lazy about that protection, protective practice? What is it then?

Shantana Telise: 14:33

I've to me. I cringe. I'm cringing because you're having somebody else sending you energy that you. I'm sorry, like I feel bad saying this, but it's just the whole thing. And it's making me cringe, like you explaining this whole thing Like I don't know who you're working with. But it's making me cringe. And it's not because, oh, come, do my no, it's because why do they need to send you energy to begin with to be able to do it? Why are you not capable of doing it on your own as you are? Why can you not raise your own energy so that you can go outside of the program to do it?

Blaire Stanislao: 15:04

So here's my thought on that Cause. I've had lots and lots of thoughts on that because I had difficulty understanding this negative we talked a lot about. Okay, my thought is, everybody is here and they have their own story. They grew up in wherever they grew up, everybody has their own issues. So they're all on whatever level, and if this person is teaching to a group, okay, everybody is in different areas, like they're different levels, right, yeah, if we're talking about, like I mean, christianity is the biggest religion worldwide, right, so you could say even like if you can use words like you were talking about before people who think they're open but maybe they're not quite as open, they get angels or entities that are more recognizable, where they can go, look them up, and it's something that they're familiar with so they feel more comfortable with it. That's sort of what I got from.

Blaire Stanislao: 15:56

This was the, the presentation of needing to do all this protection in a specific way. I would have to show it to you. I'd love to see what your actual I'm really dying to hear what your actual input is. But he had this piece of paper that went through this whole process which you said. You have something similar, right, but for me. It was like I could underline words that were like okay, here's your fear, okay, here's your programming, here's you know like and it's. It's not necessarily. I don't see it as like a negative thing. It's just as presented. Does that make sense?

Shantana Telise: 16:28

They're presenting it in such a negative way. Channeling you, bring yourself up. You need to bring yourself up to be at that vibration. You do not need somebody else interfering in your energy. Like I said, I don't let anybody touch me. So if you're having dreams, their energy is connected into you and you need to cut that cord right now. Done gone and I show how to do that in my academy too, because that's important, knowing the foundation.

Shantana Telise: 16:53

But the focus of here's all the protection you got to do. That tells me that they are low vibrational and they have not gotten to that point where they can confidently say I'm in a place where I don't actually have to deal with that. I can deal with it. I know I can humbly check my energy. Sometimes it happens. Do I have an entity attachment? Okay, I got one, I picked one up somewhere. All done., maybe I was low, that's fine.

Shantana Telise: 17:32

It's annoying that that that's the focus of. Oh, all the protection, all the protection. Where's the raising your vibration so that when you protect yourself, you do I always do the pillar of light. That's like my main. It's one of the things and it's it's such a common thing it's.

Shantana Telise: 17:46

I've seen it in cars. I've seen it done so many ways. Every mentor I've had. They've done it a different way, but they all have done it. You're doing the pillar of light. Okay, you're shielding yourself. If you're not quite comfortable enough with that, throw up a violet flame shield around you. Show how to do that. Done Confidence in that. That is your protection. Now that your focus is, you need to raise your vibration up so that you can, like I said before, you can meet those beings at a higher vibrational level. But that's why you're bringing down that divine energy into your body, bringing up mother earth's energy into your body. You're doing that pillar so that you're at a strong level. If the whole focus is just about presenting, protecting yourself, and then you need to have somebody else interfere into that, no, I, I wouldn't take that.

Blaire Stanislao: 18:33

That reminds me of like a teacher, cause my mother was a teacher and I was a teacher, so I always associate like this. But, um, it reminds me of a teacher seeing a behavior that is a problem. So let's say that's a negative entity, okay, and the teacher maybe deals with it, but they deal with it in a way that doesn't cause attention to be drawn to that. So by withdrawing the energy, which is the same practice that we're all familiar with, if you don't want something to occur, you don't cause it to not occur by focusing on not occurring, which is the idea behind the protection word, right. You cause it to not occur by focusing on not occurring, which is the idea behind the protection word, right. You cause it to not occur by withdrawing your energy from it and putting your energy more on something else, essentially causing a distraction for the energy that's going to that.

Shantana Telise: 19:22

I guess in a sense it could be a distraction. But no, you're just having a strong boundary. You're saying no, I don't, I don't agree with that, I don't allow that. That's not welcoming my energy. Thank, I don't. I don't agree with that, I don't allow that. That's not welcoming my energy. Thank you, no, thank you, here's what I do.

Shantana Telise: 19:32

I was I had one of my mentors. She said to me or she taught it in one of the classes that I watched it was like everything you put in, or everything you take out, you need to put in. And that is something I've religiously followed. And she didn't say exactly like that. She like I don't like spiders and I just I don't like it when spiders. So instead of that focus, it was a manifestation thing. And she said Okay, so you know, you're going to take that, that belief of I don't like spiders, here's what I do.

Shantana Telise: 19:59

I love ladybugs there, good luck. Or I love this, or I love a clean home that is bug free, and it's just so. Then you've put in this good energy to replace that negative energy that you've taken out, and it's the same thing that goes for everything you've taken out. Okay, no, I do not want them interfering in my energy like this. This is not welcome. Here's what is welcome. I love high vibrational people. I love people with good intentions that are at a higher vibration than I am, or at least on the same level as me. So that there's not a suck, there's not a drain.

Blaire Stanislao: 20:36

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